CrossDressing Blogs

 Candi46, CrossDresser 63  Tucson Arizona

Blessing or curse? What would you do?

I love being feminine! The feel of all the soft silky garments and undergarments is unimaginable and must be experienced to fully appreciate. I dress as often as I can for as long as I can (usually every day for at least a few hours). I can't imagine ever giving up dressing. That said, cross dressing creates social life conflicts that are unpleasant. Whether you are a stay at home dresser like me or a 24/7 fem like I want to be, you will be faced with the need to keep secrets or the need to…

 Candi46, CrossDresser 63  Tucson Arizona

Decisions

I get home from work. I am usually tired and somewhat stressed from the hectic day. Today is no exception. I head to my room to change. Now I stop to decide-do I want to dress fem today? I open my dresser and look over my bras, panties pantyhose. I am feeling really tired and not sure if I want to spend the energy to get pretty. The pantyhose look so inviting. I am already wearing panties as I usually do under my work clothes. I decide that I will just slide them up one leg to remind myself how…

 Candi46, CrossDresser 63  Tucson Arizona

Dressing femme is the only way to be

Hello ladies! It seems like forever since I wrote my last blog. Well, I finally have a few minutes in my busy life to share with all of you. I want to share how my feelings about dressing continue to evolve in a good way. There was a time in my life when, given the opportunity to dress, I would debate with myself about the wisdom of dressing. Now, however, things have changed. Now when I have the opportunity it is almost automatic to get into fem mode. And it is so wonderful! Let's face it,…

 Candi46, CrossDresser 63  Tucson Arizona

Am I a sissy? Does it matter?

Hi everyone! I am on business travel once again and lounging in my hotel room in pantyhose and a babydoll. Since I have some time, I figured I'd blog about a topic I've been pondering: Am I a sissy? Before I can answer that I need to figure out what being a sissy really means. From everything I've read and heard I certainly meet much of the 'criteria'. I love being and dressing girly. Being as fem as I can be is my passion. I am also submissive and fantasize about having…

 Candi46, CrossDresser 63  Tucson Arizona

Being fem is natural

Oh, the conflict associated with my crossdressing... will it ever go away? I'm not sure. But one thing I do know is that being fem is becoming more and more natural. I have to confess that there are still times when I have an opportunity to dress but question why I am dressing and that perhaps I should stop for good. I think that almost all CDs go through the same thought process sometimes. What I have noticed about myself is that as I continue to dress (which in reality is unavoidable) the…

 Candi46, CrossDresser 63  Tucson Arizona

Life after 2+ years of frequent crossdressing

It's hard for me to believe that it has been over two years since I told my wife about my need to crossdress. When I received her acceptance of my dressing I was like the perverbial kid in the candy store. I bought too many panties and bras, too many heels (if there is truly such a thing as too many), so many pantyhose and stockings, tops, skirts, dresses, I wanted to experience femininity in every way I could through dressing. Today, some things have changed. First, the things that have ch…

 Candi46, CrossDresser 63  Tucson Arizona

I am Candi and I love it!

I am currently in an airport waiting for my flight back to Tucson so I decided to take a few minutes to share a major milestone in my life as Candi.Last night I went to sleep in my pantyhose and babydoll as I always do when I am on travel alone. The constant reminder of my fem self from the silky nightwear really helps me to sleep well. When I woke this morning to the soft silky feel of the clothes and started to think of my day ahead I realized that something had changed about me. I no longer f…

 Candi46, CrossDresser 63  Tucson Arizona

What's wrong with being a sex object?

I find it amusing when some women complain about being viewed as a sex object. Women are sex objects to men. They always have been and always will be. It is baked into hetero male's DNA to think that way. Passing laws to control how men act towards women won't change the fact that women are sex objects to hetero males. It doesn't mean that women are only sex objects, just that it is a basic fact of life that can't be changed. Interestingly, as a crossdresser I want to be view…

 Candi46, CrossDresser 63  Tucson Arizona

Thoughts on female parts for CDs?

As I continue down the path of my feminization, I am thinking about my next steps. I don't think that I will ever consider SRS but am pondering what else I might do. The answer to my question lies in two parts I think. The first is answering "what do I need to wear or do to realize my feminization goals." The second part of the question, now that I realize that I dress to attract men, is "what do men like to see on CDs.?" I would love to hear comments and opinions on wha…

 Candi46, CrossDresser 63  Tucson Arizona

I must confess...

As Candi, I have a strong desire and need for attention. This is not because I am self centered or self absorbed (at least I don't think I am) but rather to build my feminine confidence. Like many CDs, I struggle with a variety of doubts and emotions related to my femininity. I wonder if anyone, man or woman, would really find Candi attractive. As Candi I look for reassurance that my femininity is appreciated and wanted. I cherish the positive comments and compliments that some have express…

 Candi46, CrossDresser 63  Tucson Arizona

Finally!

Well, I am back from my week long cruise and although it was a blast, I wasn't able to dress the entire time! Or shave for that matter! So, this morning, I took a nice long shower and shaved everything twice. So much better now. It had been so long since I dressed that I took my time to make sure that everything was just perfect. Matching 44D black bra and panties, my favorite pantyhose, long blonde wig, and made sure that all my makeup was perfect. Long lashes, red lipstick, and a nice flo…

 Candi46, CrossDresser 63  Tucson Arizona

Beautiful women

I love women. I always have. Lots of people can say that, of course, but for me it goes well beyond sexual attraction. Women are like works of art. The physical beauty combined with the fluid and graceful movement are just a wonder to observe. But, even more, and more special is the female spirit. Such intensity and purity is a wonder. It is why I have always enjoyed socializing with women more than men. The way a woman can light up a room when she enters without saying a word is just wonderful.…

 Candi46, CrossDresser 63  Tucson Arizona

The gift of femininity

Being fem and crossdressing brings me so much joy that I can only look at it as a gift. I can enjoy life in a way that only a small percentage of people get to experience. This is really a very special gift. Sadly, I have only been able to appreciate my gift for a few years as I did not accept my true self until then. I have been drawn to crossdressing since I was 5 years old. As I grew older it was seemingly obvious that my desire to dress was wrong and that I should "just stop". I sp…

 Candi46, CrossDresser 63  Tucson Arizona

Dress to impress

Let me start by saying that there is nothing new under the sun when it comes to crossdressing discussion topics. This blog is intended to express my thoughts on a topic that many crossdressers ponder. If you have looked at my profile and pics you probably realize that I LOVE dressing and being fem. The sexier and more fem the better. I have often been asked if I dress to attract men. The simple answer is yes (although I also am interested in women when dressed.) But the answer is not as simple a…

 Candi46, CrossDresser 63  Tucson Arizona

My morning coffee

I woke up in bed in my panties and babydoll as usual. Today was a day off so I lounged in bed for a while thinking over my choices for clothes. Do I want to wear a mini skirt or something more conservative? What heels do I want to wear? My 5 inch red platforms? So many choices. I make up my mind eventually and head to the bathroom to get ready. I start with nice long eyelashes. I love having long fem lashes, but not so long as to look trashy. Once my lashes are done, I put on my eye shadow and h…