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Strange.

Call me weird, but I find it strange when people go to restaurants and take the time to take a picture of the food they ordered, pictures of a particular dish in front of them. Ok: why do they do this? I suppose people never do this when they "dine" at some greasy-spoon place....so? Is it to show how much they can splurge on steaks and veggies? Is it to show that they "belong" to some upper "crust" of society? I have truly no idea. Must be an odd sort of mind-set when you are carrying your camera around for such purposes. Ok if you are writing a culinary column, m…

Image.

In one of Dan Brown's novels. Can't remember which. But it shows the Pope (a pope of recent times) in bad physical health. He walks around with the aid of his walker on which he has also all his pills and meds...and his oxygen bottle. So one day you see him sitting at his desk. Possibly reminiscing about things past....things troubling his conscience. And considering also the terrible physical pain he's in and a feeble shadow of the big man he was. In front of him there is this very fine, and very elegant paper cutter. He's rather concentrated on it.....and for a moment is…

Appearances

A couple of years ago a huge guy retired from the NFL (linebacker or such). Wrote a biography in which he said that after the games he would join the other guys and go to the bars and clubs, pick up a woman or two,leave the place with them, then give them their money, say thank you and go home to be with his lover-partner. Nothing new there in a way, because around 5% of ANY population (from a sport club to and entire country) is gay. Of course if an NFL player said so today, that would pretty much be the end of his career. But the facts are there. Appearances can sometimes be very deceiving.

Wondering some more....

It is surely the fantasy of many....but the (Lucky?) reality for others where you have one hetero couple in which the womane is dominant and the other pretty much her doll, her puppet, her toy to play with. She dresses (him) as she pleases, her favorite is the French Maid's outfit which he will wear when her lover is to come over. He receives the guest nicely, welcomes him to the living-room where the lady of the house is waiting to be pleased.....and as the lover is fondling her and getting quite aroused, she wil then command the maid to come over and give her lover a nice BJ......for a…

Just wondering.

I Wonder if CDs "play" housewives as well. A number of me are CDs on the side and in secret, some are in Rships and the wife knows about it and agrees with it. Question is: does the wife in actual fact like to wear the pants while hubbie wears the dress, the whig, the make-up and all.........and prepares and serves the meal? Is the CD the one to entertain the guests (I mean, just in normal circles and circumstances, nothing sexual in such events, sexual stuff held for other occasions perhaps.) Some CDs are totally macho otherwise...but maybe some play that "servant" role as…

Love and Hate

"Odi Amo". Two sides of a vey very thin coin. Love is blind and all that and as long as it lasts........but what happens when the sugar coating is gone and the daly business serts in? The reality always means money, and habits, and "discovering" the true nature of the other. People can and do love each other for decades and decades. For others, the veil drops or they get tired of the other, fall in love elsewhere - or not - then recriminations or whatever comes in. Sometimes it's like an atomic bomb and there is high drama....and death. Some people just can't let…

Schloss Neuschwanstein

Neuschwanstein ("New Stone Swan") castle in Bavaria is, in my opinion, one of the most beautiful castles in the world. Ok: unfinished and a bit of an empty shell due to the untimely death of Ludwig II. He accessed to the throne when barely 18, almost married the sister of his famed cousin Princess Sissy (who also suffered a tragic death), but never married. Turns out he was more homosexual than anything else........which did not keep him from making grand things. Some call him the "Mad King of Bavaria". I don't think he was mad in the least. Exhuberant, totally, but ma…

Body Image

So this "gurl" is proud to show her chest. In her mind she is Marilyn Monroe with a nice set of 36B or such. Of course in real life (she) is as flat chested as the girl next door who can only dream of one day having enough money to get herself a nice boob job to enhance the curves and go with her wide hips and voluptuous ass. As for the other "gurl", it's all a bit in the mind - and nothing wrong with that. It huts nobody and the gurl is quite happy (so it would seem) with her body image. The other extreme is the body building nonsense, "sported" by both men…

BJs

In my somewhat limited experience I have found that men are better than women at giving BJs. (Some) women have no clue whatsoever, don't know what to do with the thing. Other women look at it like war: hey, you want a BJ, I want oral sex. Give and take. But then we know that even if a woman takes excellent care of herself, pussy is pussy and it stinks. Guys know about dicks, know how to handle it and themselves. of course it may also have to do with personal tastes....a guy may prefer to be served by the lips a man......then *** and explode where it matters.

Homosexuality in Iran.

It does not exist. It exists nowhere in the muslim world. Their religion says so....so it must be. Of course if a gay person is found, death is immediate. Except in Iran. It seems that nowhere in their religious book (which, in some ways, dates back a zillion years before the Dark Ages) nothing is said about sex change operations. Wonder why.So: if not prohibited, as a million other things that make life bearable, then it is permitted. This taken care of, they figure that inside every gay person is a woman wanting to get out (In the investigative reporting I saw on CBC a few years back, nothin…

On travelling

Of course if you're loaded ($$$$$) you can do pretty much whatever (look at Emirates Airlines, first class!). Otherwise if you are a normal being on a normal budget (or indeed a student on an even smaller budget) you will want to look at alternative ways. Youth hostels are good - but you are sleeping in a dorm with 4,6, 8 other person or whatever. An option which I have used and like (though you must always have a Plan B) is couchsurfing****. Sometimes you end up staying in what could be a 5 star hotel it is so lovely. Other times you end up sleeping on the floor (not bad in itself) but i…

Travelling light.

Or traveling. When I have the chance to travel I always carry only a shoulder bag. Never a suitcase (load-on load-off....and a pain to carry around). Not even one of those some "small" carry-on type "suitcases" on wheels. They barely fit in the ailse, sometimes don't even fit in the overhead bin and have to be taken out of there. And I never carry more than 5 days worth of clothes (they always have washing and drying machines....or equivalent, at the other end, I suppose, if unless you are going to the boonies . Plus, you never have to wait at the baggage drop and see…

Make-up

Most men do not wear make-up. A number of women do not wear make-up either considering their natural lovely beauty. Some women - and CDs - wear a bit of make-up, know what items to select and how to apply to their advantage. Others, men and women - have no clue. Either they have no idea about color arrangements or apply toooooooooo much of toooooooo dark stuff so they end up looking more like clowns while they think they're gorgeous. Of course you also have femme impersinators who will quite knowingly apply much too much of everything, along with wearing extravagant clothes and all, but t…

"Miss Fits"?

Some men will go all the way, purchasing the cutest and sometimes most expensive lingerie, corsets etc as well as gorgeous outfits (like French Maid) and all the rest of it......and yet they hate themselves for doing it, don't accept that they go CD because something Inside their head tells them they must. It must be a terrible fight with the soul or whatever. Doing it but not accepting, in a manner, who and what you are. I never asked anyone what compelled them to do it, but there must be a very very strong force Inside them. Hopefully somewhere along the way they will find peace with th…

Loneliness.

As it is often said, it is best to be alone then to be miserable in a couple. Being alone is not a sickness. Indeed some people have a difficult time tolerating their own self. True, there are times, especially around the holidays when people who are single -even by choice - will feel a bit miserable considering al the hype and the parties and the gatherings all over the place. Single people will go "hide" themselves in the crowd in shopping centers or train stations or whatever, in a manner escaping their loneliness......but put them in a "couple" situation and they can�…