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Just wondering.

I Wonder if CDs "play" housewives as well. A number of me are CDs on the side and in secret, some are in Rships and the wife knows about it and agrees with it. Question is: does the wife in actual fact like to wear the pants while hubbie wears the dress, the whig, the make-up and all.........and prepares and serves the meal? Is the CD the one to entertain the guests (I mean, just in norm…

Love and Hate

"Odi Amo". Two sides of a vey very thin coin. Love is blind and all that and as long as it lasts........but what happens when the sugar coating is gone and the daly business serts in? The reality always means money, and habits, and "discovering" the true nature of the other. People can and do love each other for decades and decades. For others, the veil drops or they get tired…

Schloss Neuschwanstein

Neuschwanstein ("New Stone Swan") castle in Bavaria is, in my opinion, one of the most beautiful castles in the world. Ok: unfinished and a bit of an empty shell due to the untimely death of Ludwig II. He accessed to the throne when barely 18, almost married the sister of his famed cousin Princess Sissy (who also suffered a tragic death), but never married. Turns out he was more homosexu…

Body Image

So this "gurl" is proud to show her chest. In her mind she is Marilyn Monroe with a nice set of 36B or such. Of course in real life (she) is as flat chested as the girl next door who can only dream of one day having enough money to get herself a nice boob job to enhance the curves and go with her wide hips and voluptuous ass. As for the other "gurl", it's all a bit in the…

BJs

In my somewhat limited experience I have found that men are better than women at giving BJs. (Some) women have no clue whatsoever, don't know what to do with the thing. Other women look at it like war: hey, you want a BJ, I want oral sex. Give and take. But then we know that even if a woman takes excellent care of herself, pussy is pussy and it stinks. Guys know about dicks, know how to handl…

Homosexuality in Iran.

It does not exist. It exists nowhere in the muslim world. Their religion says so....so it must be. Of course if a gay person is found, death is immediate. Except in Iran. It seems that nowhere in their religious book (which, in some ways, dates back a zillion years before the Dark Ages) nothing is said about sex change operations. Wonder why.So: if not prohibited, as a million other things that ma…

On travelling

Of course if you're loaded ($$$$$) you can do pretty much whatever (look at Emirates Airlines, first class!). Otherwise if you are a normal being on a normal budget (or indeed a student on an even smaller budget) you will want to look at alternative ways. Youth hostels are good - but you are sleeping in a dorm with 4,6, 8 other person or whatever. An option which I have used and like (though…

Travelling light.

Or traveling. When I have the chance to travel I always carry only a shoulder bag. Never a suitcase (load-on load-off....and a pain to carry around). Not even one of those some "small" carry-on type "suitcases" on wheels. They barely fit in the ailse, sometimes don't even fit in the overhead bin and have to be taken out of there. And I never carry more than 5 days worth of…

Make-up

Most men do not wear make-up. A number of women do not wear make-up either considering their natural lovely beauty. Some women - and CDs - wear a bit of make-up, know what items to select and how to apply to their advantage. Others, men and women - have no clue. Either they have no idea about color arrangements or apply toooooooooo much of toooooooo dark stuff so they end up looking more like clow…

"Miss Fits"?

Some men will go all the way, purchasing the cutest and sometimes most expensive lingerie, corsets etc as well as gorgeous outfits (like French Maid) and all the rest of it......and yet they hate themselves for doing it, don't accept that they go CD because something Inside their head tells them they must. It must be a terrible fight with the soul or whatever. Doing it but not accepting, in a…

Loneliness.

As it is often said, it is best to be alone then to be miserable in a couple. Being alone is not a sickness. Indeed some people have a difficult time tolerating their own self. True, there are times, especially around the holidays when people who are single -even by choice - will feel a bit miserable considering al the hype and the parties and the gatherings all over the place. Single people will…

Fantasies.

Fantasies are a form of release. They are all quite acceptable....as long as they are legal and between consensual adults and nobody gets hurt. Of course in the privacy of your home and your head you can do whatever you want. Well, not quite: the internet comes into play and we all know of pedohile rings etc. But then say, you are single and you fantasize about having a 3some. Nothing wrong with t…

Couples.

Couples are all the same: heteros, gays, lesbians: all the same in that one of the two will lead and one will be led, one will dominate and one will be dominated. How much and how far....that always depends. We see battered women who just can't leave their mate, we have, ok, rarer, also some men in hetero couples who are constantly being beaten up by their spouse (and sometimes the guy is twi…

HIV-AIDS...

Ok, there are many ways through which a person (male or female) can contact HIV AIDS. Drug users sharing "dirty" (or shared) neeldes run the highest risk. It takes also only ONE drop of infected blood to transmit that disease. So, also you have in the porn industry "actors" who will get paid higher fees if they accept to go "bareback" (no protection, no condom), thus…

Shyness?

Some people (ok,like me) seem to be very daring from a distance.....but when comes time to get closer. to meet....woops, they disappear from the screens...and avoid further contact. Unfortunate, isn't it? Not much can anyone do about this except the person in question, but as they say in German "you are who you are".....So many books and pros in one field or another will suggests th…