Some people (ok,like me) seem to be very daring from a distance.....but when comes time to get closer. to meet....woops, they disappear from the screens...and avoid further contact. Unfortunate, isn't it? Not much can anyone do about this except the person in question, but as they say in German "you are who you are".....So many books and pros in one field or another will suggests this that and the other thing, but in the end it all dépends on you and YOUR desire to change things