I must say I have not kissed THAT many men....only a few, but I have not yet found a good kisser. Ok, no bragging but I have been told by a woman or two that I am a good kisser. True, you also have women who are not good kissers. Some (men and women) have ''structural'' mouth problems, shall we say. And that is understandable (of course that does not stop them from giving nice BJs, but that is another subject). Perhaps kissing is an innate, learned thing....or maybe more practice for some is needed, even if it is with some.....mechanical object or your favorite doll....(ok: half-kidding).