Hi Jayne, are you still there?
- 7 Jun, 2019
I will be honest, I am a wife who as just found the latest stash of his female clothing. Twice I have had tears from him and told me he will never dress up again. The third time I am at my wits end with him. I'm here for help and some guidance, I mean do I still have a husband or a best friend. I can't exactly ask my family or friends x
I'm wondering if I have one
Hi Jayne! So sorry for not making good on my promise to write sooner. I have had a long week with visitors staying and little personal time.
I spent some time putting my thoughts into words....i want to add add it in but not sure of character limits so i may have to do it in multiple posts. I may need to add them Monday, still have a few guests to get rid of
I was hoping you might join as a VIP so i could direct message you
Hope things work out for you.
Sent you private message but not sure if you can read it or reply unless you are full member.
I am new to this my self ( there are many more experienced people who may be able to help you more than me).
But if you need to chat. I am here
Speaking from his side. It is not easy to push the inner feminine side down. It is an emotional roller coaster and he is trying to control it. The hidding it is because while needing to be feminine he doesn't want to loose you. Scrolling the profiles you'll see many her dream of an understanding spouse. I'm not saying to just accept it but try to understand him. You may find a common ground and an acceptable avenue that both of you can accept for him to express his feminine side.
You still have a husband babe he cannot suppress his femininity anymore than you can stop him dressing please help him to find balance with his feminine and masculine please talk to each other find that balance
Best Wishes to you both
My female partner embraces my crossdressing lifestyle. She is my best friend . It is not a threat to our relationship, but something that enhances our lives together . Talk to your partner about how he feels and help him to explore his female side . Ultimately if you are accepting of this , you will both benefit .