My bad…..umm….LOL?

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I love the chat app at the bottom of the page, I really do. It’s a great way to get to know those girls who are not yet premium members, and is a good way to break the ice with those who might be a bit hesitant about being on the site and to let them know they are among friends.
I thought I was fairly good with the old back-and-forth, you know, sometimes flirty, sometimes understanding. That’s why I was so surprised when a girl I seemed to be having a good conversation with, wrote – You are rude. Goodbye.
What??? Where? Who? When? How…? Etc.
It turns out that the tone of what you write is of great importance and that is why they invented all those emoji things. But to have to trawl through innumerable pics looking for precisely the right sentiment – maybe that’s beyond me (cue emoji of someone looking out in vain towards the horizon).
The chat is usually a quick to-and-fro and frequently involves major spelling errors caused by fat-finger syndrome, but we all do it (don’t we? please say yes…), and I hate to slow it down by the necessity of having to look for an appropriate pic.

Anyway, as I say, we were talking and she wrote that sometimes she wears nothing at all – to which I replied that if she wasn’t wearing anything, she’s not a crossdresser, which I thought, in my innocence, was (fairly) funny. You’ve now read her reply which, being so abrupt, I felt was over the top. Apparently I should have added LOL at the end of the sentence.
She’s probably blocked me now. Ah well, win some, lose some…….lol

 dvljet, Male CD Admirer 57  Montreal Quebec

Heres the thing about people and the internet sometimes people misunderstand what your saying even if youve typed it in english . some people enjoy using caps which we all know is yelling but some seem to think it isnt . ive found alot of people never bother to really read profiles i wish they would because it makes breaking the ice easier .

 cristinacross, Crossdresser 85  Glasgow Strathclyde

I always start off polite and on the second line that's when I start the jokes and insults LOL LOL LOL call me if you wanna chat sometime xxx

 Zoex, Crossdresser 50  Glasgow Strathclyde

I am on your side with this Charlene... Where to begin lol Tone can be important, trying to come over as you intend can be difficult for all and we are messaging afterall and this makes things harder. Giving the benefit of the doubt is I find a decent way to do things. Emoji's are a mindfield and i stick to what i think a small few i use mean ( i hope ) lol

Think of two friends/family members you know well in person, they are completely different. Imagine they sent the same message, now the messages can be read in anyway for whatever reason ( not going into that mindfield today lol ) The point i am trying to make is that as you know these two people and how they can come across, tone and all. Both messages identical in reading but really knowing the person gives greater understanding. Emoji's can help help as much as confuse for the same reason, hence I stick with the basics.

I did like your joke, v funny way to break ice making light of it all ☺️

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