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So young people, especially, know they are indestructible. Maybe never heard of HIV AIDS, a form of STD which killed thousands and thousands when it first broke out decades ago. Now people living with HIV AIDS are treated but not cured. Pills etc until they die. It used to be a sort of homo sickness, some would say, but then one local doctor here in Montreal once talked about that big macho cop who came in for a test, turned out to be positive….so how does the big macho guy go home to his wife a…

So how exactly does a woman go about becoming the person she’s always wanted to be? Accept that nothing’s impossible,,“I didn’t know what I wanted to do, but I always knew the woman I wanted to be.” Science and ingenuity have revealed endless discoveries and inventions that serve as reminders that so long as you can dream it, you can create it. And since necessity clearly is the mother of invention, what do you need to become the woman you want to be? Respect, independence, adventure, love, equa…

Forgive my ignorance. I just wonder if maybe trans have the best of both worlds. Some are NOT in transition. They are who they are, presumably love who and what they are and that's it. They have attributes of both sexes. When you see some of them all dressed up, they are the cute lady next door or whatever. Then of course they have a lovely rship with their bf, no need to go in details, but the in-laws just wonder how come they will never have grand kids. Fascinating stuff, really. PS: some…

So homosexuality does not exist in the muslim world. We know because they tell us it is an invention of the bad and decadent West (ha ha ha). (They forget to remember Sodom and Gomorrah, cities mentioned in both the Bible and the Coran). And yet In Iran, when an homosexual is caught he is sometimes given the choice of death ….or sex change operation. How so? Because nothing in the coran is anything about sex change operations noted, so it is not forbidden. They figure that inside an homosexual i…

Many people are not comfortable with intimacy. They prefer their own company, enjoying films, videos, books etc while….occupying themselves. True, that is not always healthy, a human is a social creature after all, so some form of contact with others is totally necessary on occasions. It has been noted that solitary confinement in prisons can drive people to the brinks of insanity. So, I suppose the answer is, be true to who you are, but DO leave a door or a window open for opportunities.

It is the title of a crime novel by Bernhard Jaumann. it is also the title of a painting by Franz Marc (1913). Title of the painting in french: la tour des chevaux bleus. Painting not seen since the end of WWII. What I find interesting is that the author of the novel brings us in the world of counterfits. Indeed any artist of worth can copy ANY work of art so that it is impossible to tell the difference…..even by so-called experts. Always the bit about appearance and reality. You can be fooled b…

Many people discover this aspect of their personality while engaged in sexual activities. Some find that they like to dominate others find that they like to be dominated. All fine and good as long some basic rules are established, what is acceptable....and what is not. And what are the limits. It is all ok al long as it is a game accepted by both. It can turn very nasty, indeed criminal when the dominant person goes too far, goes nuts, and disregards to respect the wishes of the other person. An…

Ok: a huge subject and a bizillion pages written on it. For the moment let us just say that the Church accepts the fact of sex only inside of marriage and only for the purpose of reproduction. What a terrible bind for a lot of people. (I was born and raised as a catholic, though like millions, I no longer practice). I suppose that if you are a young family with children, there must be guidance. Maybe it is also a question of higher morals. Some of these aspects apply to ALL faiths of course and…

I have always wondered if there is any evidence of the Male species gaining extra Female hormones as they become older, one of my theories is the growing of so called 'Manboobs', is there any medical evidence to support this or Does anyone have their own experiences of any change to their body, I would be interested to hear from anyone who has experienced this condition, I personally have noticed a change in my stature even down to gaining some extra derrier inches, but then maybe havi…

I saw a couple of programs on the subject a while back. In one, a retired decorated British army war vet, a captain,returns home an announces to his wife that he is going for a sex change operation....and does. She is stunned. she says that she married a man....the story does not tell if there is eventually a divorce of if she gets a lover on the side etc... in the second case the husband gets a sex change operation, but they also have a daughter (8 years old or so), so now the child has 2 mothe…

Ok: I do not understand. CDs are like everybody else. Some are dominant, some are submissive, some are introvert, some extrovert. But being non-passable, it seems to me is a like a person dressing up to be the Belle-of-the-Soiree and then declining every invitation to dance. I would certainly appreciate enlightenment. I do try to understand the desire to dress and be entirely gorgeous to some onlooker but is that to be a sort of tease....or an inability to open up and, in a manner an incapabilit…

This is an actual quote- "the apparent absence of a lack of coins in the nation's marketplace has so alarmed the federal government that the Federal Reserve has established a 'coin task force' TO MITIGATE THE EFFECTS OF LOW COIN INVENTORIES CAUSED BY COVID19". 22 top financial people have been appointed to a "task force" (a fu**king task force) and report by early August "actionable steps that supply chain participants can implement to address the current…

Swedish author Camilla Grebe s novel (French translation: Le journal de ma disparition, but I suppose you can google her and get the English version) is fascinating. One of the main personages is a teenage boy who likes to crossdress…. in the privacy of his room. Should I say ...of course. The action is set in a small, isolated village, which makes things more complicated. Difficult situation...but there is a quite nice development. I say no more. But I highly recommend. The difficulties faced b…

Enbrace your FeminityWe Girls are a diverse bunch. We come in all shapes and sizes, and we all have different personalities, hobbies, and likes and dislikes. There is no such thing as a "typical girl."Almost everything that is traditionally considered to be feminine is taught to us by society from a very young age. You can see it in all the movies, magazines, and TV shows: Girls are expected to look, dress, and act a certain way. And, though none of us have to follow these expectations…

Needless to say that our lives have changed. I used just to leave my small apartment, cross the street, go the Metro across the street...and go. But with this pandemic and everything closed, nothing else to do but to stay close to home. Which allowed me to explore places in may area, go for long walks and enjoy. So e few weeks back, there I am, sitting at the park. Nice weather, sunshine. Mid-morning. A few people around. So a man stop before me. Mid 40s, dressed casual...and eating his soft ice…