I identify as a CrossDresser and I am aged 56 from Dover, Kent. I have been enjoying the CCD community for over three years. I am currently a Standard Member exploring the site with limited daily messaging access.
In My Own Words
Firstly i must state that myself and my wife are not interested in men messaging me only crossdressers and transgender ..AS STATED PLEASE NO MEN MESSAGE ME AS I AM NOT INTERESTED IN THAT,,,, ALSO IF NO PICTURES ON YOUR PROFILE DONT BOTHER AND REALLY ON BEING FRIENDS AND CHATTING WITH FELLOW CROSSDRESSERS ETC IN THE UK....please also IF WE HAVE THE COURTESY TO HAVE A PROFILE PICTURE WITH ME DRESSED UP PLEASE LETS SEE YOURS AND NOT ANYTHING FALSE... i know it maybe difficult but if you crossdress in private it only takes a few seconds to take a snap doing this a while in private with a very supportive wife.she loves the dressing side and fun role play side AND SHE IS WILLING TO MEET OTHER WIFES FOR CHATS RE THE HIDDEN SIDE OF US CROSSDRESSERS LIFES NOTHING SEXAULWILL HAPPEN WITH MY WIFE SO PLEASE DONT ASK SHES MINE AND MINE ALONE THANKYOU FOR UNDERSTANDING*****Its a way for me to relax more and feel comfy and in a way my wifecwould love me to be like it 24/7 mind you at times so would i but bit hard going on site in stilletos etc lol ...
Why I am Here
I am looking for CrossDresser Friendship.
Today I am feeling very happy, so you might consider this when messaging me.
My interests include CrossDresser Fashion, CrossDressing Scene, Stockings and Suspenders, High Heels, Make Up, Nail Care, Hair Care, Mini Skirts.
Hi Clarissa lovely to hear that your wife loved you dressed up etc makes it so much easier my wife loves me dressed up and very supportive of connie..loving the photos.
Well just been told by my wife that if i get the 2 bedrooms decorated this weekend she has a suprise of something new to wear well as she is also my dominant i have got my thong tights bra on under work clothes as son at home god doing this up step ladders in mini skirt stocking and 6 inch heels may be a bit awkward but it would be so sexy lol
Well after a very few difficult months of work family and general shite ive rejoined my membership and hope to get back to certain ways as of nearly a year ago....PLEASE NO MEN MESSAGING ME OR WANTING TO ADD ME AS FRIENDS******JUST CROSSDRESSERS OR TRANS PEOPLE WITH OR WITHOUT THERE PARTNERS / WIFES myself and my wife are very happy together and she is very supportive of my feminine side of life..i hope that past friends and people of chats are all ok .
Also i wish to get back to chatting etc with old cd and trans friends only NO MEN and of course newer cds and trans people since early last year..Had cracking days out last year at london and brighton pride cant wait for this years events x
O i wish i could have a couple of days off from work without having to do other stuff BUT GET A BLOODY MAKEOVER AND DRESSED UP its so disheartening when youve got new dresses and skirts to try and you aint got the time... Off sunday but busy as usual then o yesh bank holidsy next Thursday Friday etc but working but double time thats the bonus but working for myself can charge what i like ...
As i ranted on before re men trying to contact and profiles with no photos and people from different countries trying to contact and the site asking me to write a blog a out it i was wondering if the site could maybe help out by somehow hsving different colour heading on say the name like blue for men who wanna just meet for sexaul fun say pink for cds tvs etc who wanna meet for chats and fun and hopefully if possible you can put a national flag in the corner of profile of after there name
Well snorgz what about people on here's safety seeing who you're chatting with no some avatar who could be anyone or anything people who do not post a face photo after 3 months should have their profiles removed like it or lump it that is my opinion
Hi Aileen, having a lovely profile photo wonderful thing... as is having "freedom" of choice... otherwise we impose our views of the world... then friendship and kindness turn to bulling and oppression... x
Profiles with no face pics are a real problem on here I have stated on my own profile if you don't have a face pic do not contact me if you send me a friend request with no face pic you will be blocked has it worked no either they can't read or they think it's a joke there are people on here for over a year and still no face pic there should be a maximum 3 months before you are required to post a face photo
Hi everybody as i wrote on my wall re as it ststes in my profile if no profile pics why is it because you cant be seen,,now the site write a blog about this so here it goes to all the wanna be ladies without photos on here if we take the time to get dressed up and made up please even if you cant sho…
As a newbie, you don't know the etiquette or the hierarchy of a site like this; faced with the choice of 'What are you?', I chose Male CD Admirer, because I didn't think my cross-dressing (panties and stockings under male clothes) entitled me to describe myself as a cross-dresser. As regards a photo, initially I left it, realised I needed one, saw a photo of another member that just had underwear on it, and thought 'that's better than nothing' - I'm still grappling with the nervousness of (as ElenaMalena2 puts it) baby steps.
Having taken that step, and made the financial commitment to be a full member, I do feel that I'm making an effort, and I hope that people can appreciate that you can only go as fast as you're comfortable with. That said, I agree that people should respect your profile requests.
Hi Ct; I know this blog is a while old now, but I came across it, and wondered if it might help to get a newbie's perspective. I joined just under a day ago, and initially, the sign-up process and navigating the site can be overwhelming, particularly if you're also wrestling with the trauma of taking a leap into the unknown, and telling people out loud something you haven't admitted to another living soul before now. I'm still trembling at the fact that I had the audacity to do it!
Yes Elena i know the*****rule is a pain as you get typing then bam you cant post so you drlete some and carry on then go what the f..k forhotten what i had wrote.. anyway thankyou for your comments much appreciated hope you have a lovely weekend keep looking sexy xx
Great blog CT.. thank you for posting. When photos are uploaded they need to approved by a moderator before they go live. I wonder if this is what you refer to in your last paragraphs?
Also, if you do not want to receive messages from Males, why do you not adjust your Matchmaker settings?
... We have tools to block, and are "hopefully" adults able to make choices of our friends and relationships, even conversations... otherwise we are just children waiting for a parent to tell us how to think... x
I strongly disagree with anything that takes away your freedom to be who you want to be (apart from abiding with legal constraints)... who should police who is good enough to be here... I've always found this to be such a friendly cross-dressing "club", not elite dating, maybe we should ban face app, wigs and makeup... and still people could have fake profile pictures, so how about a verified passport photo to chat about shoes !?!...
Ok. I know it’s not what I should do but here goes. I read your blog, I enjoy reading blogs. I tend to write allot of thoughts as blogs now. I mean this the best way possible, but, did you proof read your thought before submitting it? Come on, sorry.
It starts getting to a point that people dont seem to read as i asked in my profile if no photos of you on your profilr then dont message if you cant show your face because your worried someone will see you then do the rest of your body its nice to see who who... Also we are knly interested in chatting being friends with crossdressers and tvs etc in the uk as will never meet people from another country.. Then theres the men who keep trying to be friends etc not interested at all.
Well my friends the westhers supposed to be lovely this weekend i hope you all can get into a summer dress who knows even a bikini or some skimpy floral lingerie...just remember the little easter eggs are not for anal pleasure lol hope you all have a lovely easter weekend..im hoping to have some dress up fun on sunday with my lovely wife and the restraints and toys as gotta work friday and saturday loves to all my ftiends xxx
Sorry to everyone of my friends and others who have been checking me out,, i havent been around much for a month personnal and work issues but will be back full time soon loves to all xx
Got pics on tv chixs site but cant get them to transfer to this site due to the bloody size of photos bloody annoying but i will try other means at the weekend to get them over x