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Hi everybody as i wrote on my wall re as it ststes in my profile if no profile pics why is it because you cant be seen,,now the site write a blog about this so here it goes to all the wanna be ladies without photos on here if we take the time to get dressed up and made up please even if you cant show your face which if done correctly you shouldnt be recognized because of the look and trsnsformation then simply add a photo of from the neck done then you can make ftiends etc then always send a private photo at later date but mysrlf and my wife say to each other and theres other crossdressers etc that also go if we take the time you to can be respectful and show us yourself dressed up thats why on my profile it states if no photo dont bother..
Then theres the issue of its as if people dont read your profile we dont require males to message or look at mysrlf as the same with people from different parts of the world we are only gonna meet crossdressers tvs tgs etc from the uk..
Sorry if people feel offended by anythjng ive put but simply read peoples profiles and thjnk off what they are requesting...
After my last comment i recieved a photo from someone who didnt have a profile pic but messaged mysrlf and went i see where your coming from and boom within a day theres a photo..
Regards Ct1969 /Connie lee
- 16 Apr, 2022
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As a newbie, you don't know the etiquette or the hierarchy of a site like this; faced with the choice of 'What are you?', I chose Male CD Admirer, because I didn't think my cross-dressing (panties and stockings under male clothes) entitled me to describe myself as a cross-dresser. As regards a photo, initially I left it, realised I needed one, saw a photo of another member that just had underwear on it, and thought 'that's better than nothing' - I'm still grappling with the nervousness of (as ElenaMalena2 puts it) baby steps.
Having taken that step, and made the financial commitment to be a full member, I do feel that I'm making an effort, and I hope that people can appreciate that you can only go as fast as you're comfortable with. That said, I agree that people should respect your profile requests.
Hope that helps, love, Sam xx
Hi Ct; I know this blog is a while old now, but I came across it, and wondered if it might help to get a newbie's perspective. I joined just under a day ago, and initially, the sign-up process and navigating the site can be overwhelming, particularly if you're also wrestling with the trauma of taking a leap into the unknown, and telling people out loud something you haven't admitted to another living soul before now. I'm still trembling at the fact that I had the audacity to do it!
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Yes Elena i know the 500 rule is a pain as you get typing then bam you cant post so you drlete some and carry on then go what the f..k forhotten what i had wrote.. anyway thankyou for your comments much appreciated hope you have a lovely weekend keep looking sexy xx
Great blog CT.. thank you for posting. When photos are uploaded they need to approved by a moderator before they go live. I wonder if this is what you refer to in your last paragraphs?
Also, if you do not want to receive messages from
Males, why do you not adjust your
Matchmaker settings?
... We have tools to block, and are "hopefully" adults able to make choices of our friends and relationships, even conversations... otherwise we are just children waiting for a parent to tell us how to think... x
I strongly disagree with anything that takes away your freedom to be who you want to be (apart from abiding with legal constraints)... who should police who is good enough to be here... I've always found this to be such a friendly cross-dressing "club", not elite dating, maybe we should ban face app, wigs and makeup... and still people could have fake profile pictures, so how about a verified passport photo to chat about shoes !?!...
Ok. I know it’s not what I should do but here goes. I read your blog, I enjoy reading blogs. I tend to write allot of thoughts as blogs now. I mean this the best way possible, but, did you proof read your thought before submitting it? Come on, sorry.