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I love a new outfit or the newest lip gloss. I like feel of being seen and accepted as one of the woman in a marketing meeting. I like being seen and respected as an equal in the boardroom. 
The letting go of my past relationship has been difficult with her popping in to check up on me every few weeks after no contact for months and months. I find myself distracted when I get home. After a few unsuccessful dates I just focused on work and not a relationship or friendship. Those old feelings get brought up and I’m left staring at door after she leaves. No one measures up to her. No one has yet. I know I need to move on. A part of me misses her so much I’m broken into pieces everytime she visits and leaves again. 
So it’s tine to go find some new lip gloss and maybe find that new someone. Time to get focused. 

Love you, miss you

Rose

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DeniseGrace, Trans (Tgirl) 61 Bellevue Nebraska
DeniseGrace
  • 10 May, 2026 at 1:35

I had two marriages go bad for a variety of reasons. There is a grief process and it can take a long time, but less if you focus on new good coming your way. Once they really go bad, there is lylle chance usually of a reunion turninh out better

Karenshy, TV 64 Guildford Surrey
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Karenshy
  • 3 May, 2026 at 15:50

I suggest staying single until you've got your head back together so you don't take the last relationship issues into the next one.

Maila, Crossdresser 63 Somme-Leuze Namur
Maila
  • 2 May, 2026 at 15:17

Rose, a broken relationship hurts... I hope you find the strength to move on. If new lip gloss helps to find that new someone, then please buy lots of it! However sometimes it is also useful to just stay alone for a while and find new peace. A closed door automatically opens a new one. Kiss Maila

1966mustang, Crossdresser 66 Pittston Pennsylvania
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1966mustang
  • 2 May, 2026 at 11:06

I'm so sorry for your loss. There are a lot of people on this site in your exact position. I hope your friends on this site lift your spirits everyday. Keep your chin up and be cheerful everyday and you just might find someone by surprise. You sound like a wonderful person. Heart :heart: Angel :angel: Kiss :kiss:

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