Hard to tie the straps

hello so I’m having issues with my straps on my heels they are really kicking my butt. I’m about to go on a stroll and take chances getting caught or found out after finally getting these after market straps on I feel as if I can walk now. With out breaking my ankles anyways lol. I thing they should come with instructions I hope you enjoy my funny but serious blog. Would you comment and give me your fix and if you have had issues before. My feet are fat and don’t slide in and out as easy so traditional ways I’ve found don’t work. I’m really just looking for a friend who wants to talk and help a cd out. After watching these reels on trans I believe I want to stay a man and just feminize every now and then. I do like to complete my man trait and give a girl what she wants. I just want to be girly to every so often.