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Do we have a purpose or what?

I just wanted to jot down some thoughts that run rampant in many mind. Do we, as members of a special breed of woman have a purpose? I believe I’ve been searching for that purpose for over five years now. 

It can’t be just my extreme love for all things silky and satin. Deep seeded desires from early childhood is all that drives me 50 years later? I don’t think it’s quite that easy and shallow. I never was one to read and write, most certainly not how I do now. Becoming Deñi is a glorious way to bring out my feminine side. I’ve been blessed with a gift of “friendliness”. I cannot help but smile. I’m happy in almost all my pics. Gurls, seriously, try it sometimes. At least say cheese when the flash bulb blinds you. 

I read allot where gurls purge their stuff from time to time. Maybe they got caught or are about to be found out. They throw their precious things away or donate them to Goodwill or the local thrift store. Many things are too intimate to be freely disposed of. A couple of my reader gurlfriends have sent me packages instead of trashing the evidence of their “debauchery”. Don’t ya just love that word. 

I keep their things safe and in some cases return them later and in other instances I pass on the items to other gurls in need. I feel empowered when I’m able to help. If any of you need some things, feel free to ask me about my excess. Seriously! 

And on one final note, my other purpose is to bring a friendly face to an unfriendly world. Providing men with the sexual pleasures they crave. Most of my boyfriends are senior citizens, married or widowed. In a non sexual relationship with their partner. They are searching for the lost passion of their youth. Gurls, this is our cue, it’s the why we are here at a time like this. Embrace who you are and be happy to know there are tons of people who love you and appreciate you for who you are. Me, I’m a curvy, mature woman. 

 cristinacross, Crossdresser 85  Glasgow Strathclyde

Well thought out Deni...Dressing to me is so very therapeutic especially when I buy from Charity shops. I love to imagine what and who the previous owners were and what their dress styles were as well as cosying into their outfits.....so very invigorating ...

 Deni_gurl, Crossdresser 70  Selbyville Delaware

Thank you very much honey

 Rose-green1, Crossdresser 38  Toronto Ontario

Fantastic insight

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