June 24 Everyday Girl Talk

Hi there girls. At the risk of being a pest on the blog board I'll contribute a few additional thoughts on cross dressing. Elsewhere some have commented on the unfortunate tendency of some mtf girls to feel quilt and shame for wanting to dress in women's clothes sometimes leading to purging. This is a product of social pressures. Do cis-women feel shame for wearing pants/trousers/jeans that were typically men's clothing? No they don't. I feel women tend to dress like men way too much now. They should go back to skirts and dresses (lol). But if they don't want to, so be it, we can pickup the slack and wear the skirts and dresses. Yes.

One reason I love to dress up in women's clothes is the colour and bodycon look. Plus I utterly adore long hair down to a woman's breasts. Yes I adore those too. Typically guys dress in conservative tones. Grey suits. My typical male dress is blue jeans. Blah. Double blah. Practical for work but that is all. This is why we call it drab now. I'm either crossdressed or in drab. You will note from some of my pix that I love the colours (no, I'm not Ukrainian). In my profile pic I'm wearing an electric blue spandex miniskirt, white cowgirl boots, white pantyhose and a speckley mauve top with long blonde hair. Nice and colourful. So am I dressed in age appropriate clothes? Hell, NO!

A lot of CD websites can't help but offer advice on dressing for CD girls. They often say dress age appropriately. This is utter hogwash. Utter hogwash. After conversing with others and thinking about it for awhile I think girls should just dress in what they think makes them look good. If you look in the mirror and say to yourself "Man is that ever dowdy!" then change it up and put some colour in it. Longer hair. Shorter skirt. Pantyhose. If you are older as am I, it is pretty cool to dress younger and look in the mirror and be hit with that "Wow, Wow" feeling. It rocks. It is a pretty nice feeling. And then you can go public and find that getting noticed by other men and women is a HUGE kick. Just sayin' girls. Do what feels and looks right for you not what some supposed experts tell you is good for you. Nuff said.

BriannaLeah