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This hasn’t been my first foray into the world of online CD sites,
it’s my third. The first two turned out to be operated by a company or
whatever that appears to operate a multitude of similar type websites where there is next to no
culpability.
Now although Club Cross Dressing is an altogether more friendly and
relaxed affair, I’m puzzled by two things. Why join a site such as this
if the intention is to remain totally incognito? Not wanting to be
identified I can understand, especially so within this island where I
reside. It doesn’t explain though why many members refrain from posting
any photographs at all. Surely they realise that most cautious members
wouldn't contemplate making contact with such a person. So why do they
bother joining a cross dressing site?
Then there are the members that do post photographs but like the vast
majority of the aforementioned incognito members, don’t bother to pay
the membership fee, which means that even if you did want to make
contact - you can't - so why do they bother joining a cross dressing site?
Am I missing something here? Answers on a postcard to ------
- 15 Dec, 2023
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Yah I'm kinda with you. The big draw for me was posting pix that I liked and hoped others would like. In the last 6 months there do seem to be a lot of non pictured members. I usually just ignore them if they contact me.
I have not been in good health and also my ailing wife, CCD has given me the chance to chat to many CCD friends and for that I am eternally greatful......Cristina Cross x
People join CD sites for lots of reasons. Some just do it as a way to reach out to others who might be struggling with similar insecurities as their own. Just seeing that you are not alone as a CD provides a great deal of comfort to many. Pictures aren't needed for that. People post pics as a way to affirm their feminity or, for some, hoping for a meet up. Plus, in a world where businesses are routinely hacked, posting pics anywhere creates a risk of unwanted exposure.
I'm not complaining about ClubCrossDressing, far from it, just the way some use it. It's been suggested contact can be made with non-VIP members by initiating a chat and they have a 1-hour window to respond, which isn't long, certainly wouldn't suit me. On the credit card problem, there is PAYG available which several friends use without any problems. Also mentioned is hoping to see explicit photos, these can be seen on thousands of free sites all over the net. For sure, I'll be sticking with it, none of the probems will put me off, perseverance is hopefully the key.
Hi; I think you are missing a couple of things:
Photos - Not everyone is totally au fait with the technology of how to upload, and possibly, new members may be at the very start of their journey of discovery, and still unsure about who they are and how they want to portray themselves.
Membership - not everyone can afford it, and domestic circumstances may preclude being able to (mysterious payments on joint bank account statements)
Contact - non-VIP members can attract your attention by visiting your page or sending you a gift. You can then initiate a chat if you want, which they have a 1-hour window to respond to.
Samantha xx
Understandable,
But don't give up on this site, as it's evolving and reinventing itself.
Windy