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Hi lovely Nymphettes, I hope 2024 is being good to you. Candi wrote another interesting blog right after my previous one. I thought I would provide an extended comment. As guys we pretty quickly learn what we do and don't like, especially in our womenfolk. Probably about the time of puberty if not before, we usually get a squishy feeling that we like girls even though a couple of years before we knew we never would. Like everybody else I knew in short order what I liked in girls. Always was a sucker for taller girls with long hair and long legs but especially that hourglass womanly shape. (Ok breasts will not be discussed in this blog.) There is absolutely nothing wrong with admitting that, I don't think it makes one "shallow". However, guys will learn quickly that if they are 5 ft 2 and heavy-set or very slight that they probably will have to modify the class of woman they pursue. Mind you, there certainly are examples of loving couples we see who we would never think would click, which shows us there are lots of qualities involved. Yes, of course, we all come in different shapes and sizes and colours.
I like my guy side but I certainly enjoy those female curves, putting on a bra, soft silky garments, short skirts, perfumes, pantyhose and especially long hair when I can put those on. At our CD Club when we meet we have a room full of 6 ft (or more) tall, pantyhosed, miniskirted "giant" women. Our genetic woman founder (our "Den Mother") usually comes to meetings and is dwarfed by all the other members. That is ok. As for the type of woman we would like to "be if we had been born one", of course, the cultural ideal is always it. Those members of our club are trying to emulate attractive, trim, sexy women and the word alluring quickly comes to mind. Nobody dresses like a prudish schoolmarm from the 1920s or a 1950s grandmother. They all want to be seen as sexy and alluring and those that can do makeup (please, why can't it be me) do not spare the horsepower. They look good. And most do paint their nails. You won't see this in genetic women in public much anymore.
I know the feminists will pounce on me saying this like a male lion on a hyena but it's true. Nobody wants to look dowdy as we often see genetic women dress in public these days (a lot of men are no better). I attribute that to laziness, a culture in decline and the unfortunate rise of feminism. Cis-women don't want to be bothered putting on pantyhose and a skirt or makeup anymore which seems strange to me as I can get girly in 7 minutes, without makeup. So they will slap on some jeans or even pajama bottoms (good God!). Do we really want to have everybody wearing jeans and T shirt out there? I love genetic women (and CD girls) I just wish they would dress "more alluring", lol. No wonder there are so many male CD admirers now.
- 25 Jan, 2024
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Great blog! It seems that if you want to see women who are dressed and made up to look attractive then you need to go to clubs or hire one! Lol
Amen to that!