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Why do we do it? MtF crossdress that is. I was a late bloomer. Did not know in my 20s or 30s that I would eventually like to wear women's clothes especially in public. And provocatively short skirts to boot. Many of our sisters are not late bloomers but know from an early age. Wonder how this works. I really do. I don't think anybody has much of a coherent answer. I was always pretty much a guy's guy and still largely am but that girly side is now pretty strong. And the more girly the better. For me it's important to show off the derriere and pantyhose clad legs. As well a big bust for me is de rigueur. Little bitty titties just will not do. I like them big.

Now, what really makes a woman? Well with a little help (very little help!) she makes babies. How does she carry the baby? With those luscious womanly hips. Yes! I noticed in taking my own pix that when I was wearing my pull on hips the pose was much more alluring. When I did not have hips on, the straight look (I'm sorry for cis-women who have no hips) was to me quite unattractive. The pix with legs together or slightly overlapped to accentuate the womanly hips look make all the difference in the world. Of course, it does help to have the right legs and a full derriere. Go out in public and you will get the looks for sure. Of course, a woman's crowning glory is her hair. I do have some short wigs but don't wear them much. To me a woman should have at least a pageboy but I prefer hair down to my titties and BTW I now realize that combing the wig and probably using conditioner too is crucial. You will see the difference when the hair softly flows over itself has a nice sheen and NO Tangles. It is lovely to see soft, well combed hair spread out over a woman's shoulders. Luscious! A woman's hair is her crowning glory. Please no brushcuts.

Again I would encourage sisters to feel free to go out in public en femme. I know when you are getting started it is daunting but we all need to keep growing. This morning I heard from somebody in just this position. A week ago Saturday after our meeting/presentation 4 of us went out (all en femme) for dinner and drinks at a new local watering hole (yes they displayed a Pride flag). We did get the looks and certainly had fun. Nobody came to hit on us either which I blame on my big shoulders and another's 6ft 4 in heels. LOL. Last Wednesday I did fly solo for an appt with my GP and made stops along the way home. No trouble. My first time in public in a dress. Great fun.

Cheers Girls

BriannaLeah


 Sensualatea, Crossdresser 59  Ottawa Ontario

Hi Briana-Leah
I agree 100% about long hair and being combed and conditioned. My problem is my wigs always get frizzy after I comb them. What kind of conditioner to you use to keep your wigs from going frizzy?

 sissylexy, Crossdresser 59  Sydney New South Wales

Would love to have seen pics from your gurls night out!

 chino1984, Crossdresser 59  Huntley Illinois

It is difficult to go out into the street dressed because of the fear that we will be rejected or mocked. But you're right, we have to grow up and move forward and overcome that fear and learn to move and dress well. I liked that we should highlight our hips and butt to attract attention.

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