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I would like to go out to the bar looking like this, I think about gaining enough courage and confidence to go to the bar and have a drink, I hope that someone will talk to me or can have a conversation and I will be honest telling them that I am a dresser that I like to dress like a woman, I don't know how it's going to go but I want to take the risk.
Generally I am very shy but it is something that I would like to do as a challenge for my progress in my femininity and to have the vigor to go out and not always be locked up and to be able to share and feel more normal according to my personality and not feel so alone
- 24 Jun, 2024
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As said below- LGBTQ1A+ places are a great start!! If your looking to go to a “mainstream” place- seek “chains” as they normally have policies of acceptance for their employees so at least the bartenders or wait staff will be friendly. A bartender who greets you openly is a wonderful way for the door to be opened to those immediately sitting near you. Of course it matters as to the “community or even state” in which the bar is located. I guess a good comparison (very generally as there are alway exceptions) is, if your state allows recreational marijuana then it is probably progressive in acceptance of “us”.
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Oh- let a bartender or wait person know you use the mens room and the make sure they know “before” you go. I usually observe “who” has gone in and out before I use it- I steer away for running into children so - PLAN
Completely can relate to this! Hope you find the courage to go out!
The easiest places to go are gay bars, and I hope that you can find one near you. In my experience they are always welcoming, and usually someone will chat to you.