Skirts or Dresses

If you are like me then you agonize over what to wear to the next outing. I do it all the time. I try to plan what to wear a week in advance but each successive day gets me thinking anew. Funny it doesn't really matter between the outfits too much - they all look pretty good and in time I will get to all or most of them. I go thru the pictures on my phone trying to pick out the best combination. Some of them do stick out as being great at least in my mind. I have talked to other girls in our club and it seems about the same for them, so I'm not alone. I'm going to try to be more disciplined in future. Decide a couple of days before and stick with that decision.

What I really do want to talk about is skirts versus dresses. You know I've had a lot of nice skirts for a couple of years and the tops to go with them. I thought I would always be a skirt girl. You know - nice form hugging, spandex skirts. With spandex you can show off that nice girly shape, those womanly hips. If you are a straight hipped guy like most of us are you will need the foam pad on the hips garment. Underneath the garment wear women's control panties to reign in Mr. Studly, then over the garment your chosen shade of pantyhose. I like black, white and nude. Finally, the skirt. I have found this to be an awesome combination. It smooths your front and gives you a nice curvy, girly shape on the hips. Very attractive.

Dresses. Yes dresses. I never thought I would be able to look good in them but I did order a few from Shein and Temu mainly because other girls in our club usually wore dresses. (I was the skirt girl.) I tried them and they were nice. I'm still partial to a higher hemline - short like my skirts. There is a lesson in this. You may think that an item is not for you but try it on. I have had this happen a number of times. You look in the mirror and "WOW". It likes you a lot. And you will like it! Wearing dresses generally doesn't show off those lovely, girly hips as much as my spandex skirts but they look uber feminine. I have very square broad shoulders so I try to distract from them by wearing very generous girls up front if you get my drift, tucked inside a 48DDD bra. It gotta be jelly cause jam don't shake like that. I now swear by wearing a scarf too whether it's dress or skirt. In my view both can look sexy, feminine and alluring to the guys (or girls) out there you want to impress. And don't forget the matching purse.