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Who do you talk to when you feel lost, overwhelmed, or concerned about where life is taking you. And I surely don't mean everyday dilemmas. I mean about you sexuality, your dressing,, or coming out.  I have met / chatted with many people on here who seem to feel lost with whom they can communicate with.  

Some are very closeted, married or concerned by the possible ridicule or blow back they'd get if they truly came out. And I get that.  I spent years fighting my sexuality. And even though I am not a crossdresser, my lust for women who have the same equipment below the belt has led .e to try and speak with someone who could honestly and openly discuss issues of the mind, heart and soul.

Countless nights I wished I had that friend I could call or text who I could clearly state where I'd like to be, versus where I am at. 

i hope for everyone that they find that someone, on this site or otherwise that they could share deep, intimate feelings and emotions. Even just as friends. 

 I know there's a million times over the years I wanted to scream to the world that I like penis as much as vagina.  That in many instances I wish I could fall in love with someone transgender or a crossdresser and live a different lifestyle.Hiwever, making sure it's just us, not either of us being a side dish, or some secret affair.  Life is shirt, you have to live how you want to live 

And truthfully, I want someone who's going to be so in love with me as I am with them, that nothing will break that vind.

With some of you, I've heard those same words, those same feelings. my best advice for anyone who feels lost is to find that friend. Find that trust, love and acceptance with someone who knows exactly where you're at and where you are going.

If you still can't, I'm always open for true, honest chat.  Don't ever hesitate to reach out, because in some ways I'm in the same boat as all of you are.

 sissylexy, Crossdresser 59  Sydney New South Wales

Great blog and fully agree with your points. We all need that person to talk to. I’m available if anyone ever wants to chat etc. thanks for raising these great points

 Bethanysmoothe, Trans (Tgirl) 74  Sheffield South Yorkshire

I totally agree with your blog and have helped quite a few girls with their problems. As the saying goes a problem shared is a problem halved. I am always there for anyone who needs me to listen and if I can to help. xx

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