Chrissy7777 – Crossdresser from Ottawa

I'm kinda "vanilla" in that I seek quality relationships with heart. The rest, including bedroom games, comes out of that for me, not the other way around. I don't do sex with strangers. So if you're looking for a quick ******, you'll be disappointed.

First and foremost seeking friendships, activity partners (geeky sci-fi, fantasy, horror movies, board games, video games, etc., as well as the great outdoors: kayaking, camping, biking, hiking, etc.) with other CDs/trans/nonbinary that are local so that real, pressure-free meets/activities together are possible and can even become regular. I lack experience and a girlfriend would help me grow in confidence. Remote support just doesn't cut it. This is NOT for sex hook ups. If more than a friendships forms that's awesome, but it should happen naturally and in person, not online. So if you're in the closet like me (I'm non-binary/androgynous in public), seek quality relations and caring support to help you blossom, develop your unique look, pursue electrolysis/laser, hair styling... reach out. We could do wonders for each other and friends you can share your most intimate self with are the only ones that matter. Even intimate relationships not rounded out, not balanced with a supportive cast of friendships to fall back on is at best prone to extremes and bad outcomes.

I've had so little luck in the man department I can't say I have much hope of finding one compatible, that will appreciate all my sides and not just my desire for more femininity. And yet it regularly reoccurs in my fantasies. Go figure:-p But if something were to work, I feel it would be with a very mature man who is intelligent, sweet, seeking a dedicated/monogamous relationship like me. I love deep, erotic, sensuality with heart, nothing rude/crude. Health conscious and clean and seek the same. I am not looking for quick and shallow. Quite the opposite. I'm here to learn and grow, finding my way with those I feel I can trust, who help me express my femininity with loving support. It's been a long, difficult journey, sometimes dark and often sad, but I'm learning above all that it's the company you keep that makes all the difference. Be good to each other. Anything less isn't worth your while. Love is not out of the question if you reach for it, and it makes everything better. Sex without heart is a poor experience, but when you mix naughty with heart you find playful joy...