Smlockerd – Crossdresser from Tucson

In my experience it’s the biggest stress reliever ever.
Like you I work long and different shift patterns so it limits me sometimes to be Vicky but to me it’s pure escapism..you become someone else..like a member said in this chat it’s like being an actor taking on a role…you become that person…I leave myself at the door while Vicky takes over.
I’ve had issues with stress and anxiety in the past and even been on medication for it but now I’m not because I’m looked after by my alter ego..Vicky xxx

It's a total escape more than a de-stress but I do feel relaxed and normal dressed. When I have to be male again it doesn't feel right. i am lucky in having a partner who completely embraces my femme side so I can really be me.

Dressing for me is a means of escaping my regular life as a male and I would define myself as a part time TV. It's not just about clothes, over the years I've developed a fully feminine persona and I would equate it to being an actor playing a part. When dressed I'm more relaxed and confident in myself, and the way I project myself if in company or the rare occasions I'm out in public.