Blessing or curse? What would you do?

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I love being feminine! The feel of all the soft silky garments and undergarments is unimaginable and must be experienced to fully appreciate. I dress as often as I can for as long as I can (usually every day for at least a few hours). I can't imagine ever giving up dressing. That said, cross dressing creates social life conflicts that are unpleasant. Whether you are a stay at home dresser like me or a 24/7 fem like I want to be, you will be faced with the need to keep secrets or the need to deal with confrontations with narrow minded people. I sometimes wonder if I was given the opportunity to be male 24/7 with no temptation or desire to ever dress again, would I choose to pursue this? Would I choose to give up my life of sexy lingerie, stockings, bra, pretty outfits, scents and the rest for the opportunity to never be interested in dressing again? It's a tough question for me to answer. I love being feminine. But, if given the choice to not care or be tempted by dressing thus eliminating the regular internal and external conflicts, would I be better off? Happier? I don't know. I wonder what you would do?

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sandijons, Crossdresser 70
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sandijons
  • 22 Jan, 2020 at 21:22

once you discover her it is not so easy to say im done never again she is a part of me

xdresser139, Crossdresser 72 Buffalo New York
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xdresser139
  • 10 Oct, 2019 at 10:48

I would love not having the urge to dress. My wife caught me trying on some of her lingerie once and freaked. So I guess her getting involved with it is a big NO. I am a straight male but after that she had her doubts about me being gay. So I have my secret stash of clothes and when I am alone for a few hours or on the road for work i get to dress. I've often thought, like you wishing I never got the urge and my life would be normal. But feeling like I do now I could never give it up.

SexyAlice, Crossdresser 48 Penrith Cumbria
SexyAlice
  • 4 Oct, 2019 at 12:54

Honey I agree it is a constant struggle I'm no longer a stay at home dresser or am I 24/7 dresser I dress when I've have an opportunity I'm incredibly happy when I'm Alice but as a man I'm happy aswell very happy most of the time I find my Alice persona really defines my very interesting life! And I do hate the lying and hiding from people particularly my wife she hates my dressing but could I give it up no don't think so! X
Nice blog as always! X

Geraldine1967, Crossdresser 59 Haverhill Suffolk
Geraldine1967
  • 4 Oct, 2019 at 6:32

I don't ever foresee giving up dressing en-femme, it's a part of me i cannot nor want to eliminate. The conflict is just another part of this wonderful experience,but pales into insignificance compared to the joyous feeling of slipping into some stockings and attaching those suspender clasps then slowly pulling on a skirt nd blouse or dress, doing my little bit of make up nd fixing my hair. Seeing Geraldine come to life! Thats the thrill and i love it x x

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