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Someone once said that variety is the spice of life. This rings true to me so it's no wonder I love dressing so much! I mean just think of the boring choices for men's clothes - polo or dress shirt, jeans or slacks, boxers or briefs, cross trainers or dress shoes. That's about it. As a girl though - wow- so much to explore! How to makeup my eyes today? Dress or top with pants/skirt? How bout a jumper? Stockings, pantyhose, or bare legs? So many choices of bra style and color. I ha…

OK. I said it. And I am on my way to fully accepting it. Like most of us, I have spent a great deal of time doing internet searches on what that really means. Based on everything I have read, there is no doubt in my mind that I am a sissy. Even in my early years, before I knew what a sissy was, I realized that I viewed the world, and women in particular, very differently than "normal" men. I have always adored, respected, and empathised with women way more than other boys and men. Ther…

Another weekend morning fully dressed and enjoying a hot cup of coffee. Today I have finally completed my look with hip and butt enhancements. It feels so wonderful to finally have the total fem look that I have craved. I have found that looking as fem as possible really makes me adore women even more. And my skirts fit so much better now! What a wonderful feeling to look in the mirror and see myself as I want to be with all the curves in the right places. Such a joy. Love you all, Candi

As a frequent cross dresser, I often think, and sometimes fantasize, about being a genetic female. It seems at times that being a "real" woman would be a dream come true. What could be better than having naturally grown breasts and and all the rest of the female parts? To have a natural hourglass shape without the need for all the shape wear? Wouldn't that be a dream come true? Or... would it?As a CD, the transition from my male personna to my fem self is an amazing experience. Ev…

Hello everyone! I am sitting here drinking my morning coffee and fully dressed as usual. Today, I am wearing a black blouse with a pink floral pattern, black bra and forms. I am blonde and have chosen a short black pencil skirt. The skirt has one side opaque and one side with alternating opaque and sheer stripe pattern. Black pantyhose and 4 inch black heels complete me. I am also wearing a corset today. I find that not only does a corset give me the girly figure I want but having a better defin…

Arguably, the one item of clothing that makes CDs feel most fem is panties. What is it about panties that causes such a strong link to our fem side? I spent a fair amount of my younger years trying to "get into" women's panties and now, ironically, I wear them exclusively. After years as a CD, panties are still a mainstay. In fact, I find that panties are much more comfortable than men's underwear and now, I can't stand the feeling of boxers. I can't imagine wearing…

I love being feminine! The feel of all the soft silky garments and undergarments is unimaginable and must be experienced to fully appreciate. I dress as often as I can for as long as I can (usually every day for at least a few hours). I can't imagine ever giving up dressing. That said, cross dressing creates social life conflicts that are unpleasant. Whether you are a stay at home dresser like me or a 24/7 fem like I want to be, you will be faced with the need to keep secrets or the need to…

I get home from work. I am usually tired and somewhat stressed from the hectic day. Today is no exception. I head to my room to change. Now I stop to decide-do I want to dress fem today? I open my dresser and look over my bras, panties pantyhose. I am feeling really tired and not sure if I want to spend the energy to get pretty. The pantyhose look so inviting. I am already wearing panties as I usually do under my work clothes. I decide that I will just slide them up one leg to remind myself how…

Hello ladies! It seems like forever since I wrote my last blog. Well, I finally have a few minutes in my busy life to share with all of you. I want to share how my feelings about dressing continue to evolve in a good way. There was a time in my life when, given the opportunity to dress, I would debate with myself about the wisdom of dressing. Now, however, things have changed. Now when I have the opportunity it is almost automatic to get into fem mode. And it is so wonderful! Let's face it,…

Hi everyone! I am on business travel once again and lounging in my hotel room in pantyhose and a babydoll. Since I have some time, I figured I'd blog about a topic I've been pondering: Am I a sissy? Before I can answer that I need to figure out what being a sissy really means. From everything I've read and heard I certainly meet much of the 'criteria'. I love being and dressing girly. Being as fem as I can be is my passion. I am also submissive and fantasize about having…

Oh, the conflict associated with my crossdressing... will it ever go away? I'm not sure. But one thing I do know is that being fem is becoming more and more natural. I have to confess that there are still times when I have an opportunity to dress but question why I am dressing and that perhaps I should stop for good. I think that almost all CDs go through the same thought process sometimes. What I have noticed about myself is that as I continue to dress (which in reality is unavoidable) the…

It's hard for me to believe that it has been over two years since I told my wife about my need to crossdress. When I received her acceptance of my dressing I was like the perverbial kid in the candy store. I bought too many panties and bras, too many heels (if there is truly such a thing as too many), so many pantyhose and stockings, tops, skirts, dresses, I wanted to experience femininity in every way I could through dressing. Today, some things have changed. First, the things that have ch…

I am currently in an airport waiting for my flight back to Tucson so I decided to take a few minutes to share a major milestone in my life as Candi.Last night I went to sleep in my pantyhose and babydoll as I always do when I am on travel alone. The constant reminder of my fem self from the silky nightwear really helps me to sleep well. When I woke this morning to the soft silky feel of the clothes and started to think of my day ahead I realized that something had changed about me. I no longer f…

I find it amusing when some women complain about being viewed as a sex object. Women are sex objects to men. They always have been and always will be. It is baked into hetero male's DNA to think that way. Passing laws to control how men act towards women won't change the fact that women are sex objects to hetero males. It doesn't mean that women are only sex objects, just that it is a basic fact of life that can't be changed. Interestingly, as a crossdresser I want to be view…

As I continue down the path of my feminization, I am thinking about my next steps. I don't think that I will ever consider SRS but am pondering what else I might do. The answer to my question lies in two parts I think. The first is answering "what do I need to wear or do to realize my feminization goals." The second part of the question, now that I realize that I dress to attract men, is "what do men like to see on CDs.?" I would love to hear comments and opinions on wha…