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So, I am straight. I love women. No, I adore women. So that means I am straight...right? Or, am I? Something happens when I am Candi that I can't explain. Something in my core being. Everything I do as Candi I do to attract MEN. I choose my mini skirts, stockings, and heels to catch a man's eye. My breasts and makeup are selected to look sexy for men. My flirting comments are aimed at drawing a man's attention. I long to feel a man's hands on me. To feel his hands attempting to explore beyond where a good girl should allow. I long to see the passion in his eyes as they explore me from top to bottom. His hands taking in my curves. But wait. I'm straight...arent I? Am I gay? Or maybe I'm straight as a man AND as a woman. Life can be so confusing sometimes.
- 2 Apr, 2022
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You make very valid points! I have read lots of interesting writings on this that popped up on my tumblr, are you on there? X
Ok. This is actually very simple. I could not agree anymore if I wanted to the the wonderful replies I've read from the others. However it is that you feel, as a man, or as Candi, that's just how it is. Don't confuse yourself with it, don't overthink it, and certainly don't ever try to label it. Just live it, and most of all, LOVE it!!!
Much love and respect,
Mystical
I agree with the adoring the womanly shape and everything about women. To me my crossdressing is because of that. I am jealous and want to also look so good as these women I adore. Not because I want to attract men, although I do like to be watched by anyone when dressed. But i still hope there is a woman out there that is also attracted to me when I am dressed as a woman. Always shooting for the stars!
I agree as a man I am straight and only like love admire women. When I dress I try to be the best woman I can be in or out of the bedroom I become very bi and very bottom when dressed
Coleen XXXOOOAAA
Maybe your just a lesbian, if you are, I wouldn't mind getting together with you
Beautifully poignant, I feel so emotional reading those words xxx
You are so gorgeous, would be a shame to lose you to one sex or another whatever that may be as you put it. I am glad you are available to both although I am very disappointed I can't get a chance to have my hands on you as you put it. Stay BEAUTIFUL.
Hi Candi. My cross dressing I keep in a little mental box and I only open it under very specific circumstances. Like you I adore most women and I suppose my love of cross dressing is wanting the attention and feeling like I'm very attractive to others. I don't see anything wrong with that at all. Like you I adore the female form, the shapely hips (which I'm a total sucker for), the nice full breasts, lovely long hair and smooth sexy legs and shapely derriere! And yet I'm bisexual so go figure.
Life can be as you say confusing... I guess you'd be gay if you're attracted to men... as a man... just walking down the street... Maybe what you feel Candi is the attention and attraction of men to validate and intensify your feelings of being a woman.... but as we know the connection and attraction with another person is indeed a complex thing, and gender is just one of the parts.... xoxo