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I find it interesting that I often see negative or disinterested posts regarding male admirers.  Obviously, we all have different interests and tastes but for me, I love to draw the interest of males when I am dressed. Honestly, I select my outfits to attract their attention and comments and to get them excited. Just getting a note from an admirer saying something like "you're beautiful" makes me tingle.  I don’t consider myself to be gay but when dressed I want a man's attention for some reason.  Knowing that a man is turned on by my pics is a turn on for me as well.  Having my femininity reinforced this way is so exciting and satisfying.  I encourage admirers to express themselves to us girls but you probably should make sure the girl of your interest is interested in this kind of attention first.

 DeeLV, Bi Male CD Admirer 56  Las Vegas Nevada

Thanks Candi, great blog. And thanks girls, for your supporting comments. You all put in a great deal of effort to look as beautiful as you all do! Appreciate you feeling good about the compliments!

 darline, Crossdresser 67  Tasmania Tasmania

I agree with all these comments. It is a great feeling that makes you feel like you are not wasting your time.

 coleenedinburgh, Crossdresser 69  Edinburgh Lothian

It makes me feel all good inside when I get a compliment. I know I am bisexual and love to be praised I have acted out some of my fantasies when I'm dressed I love it.

 sissylexy, Crossdresser 59  Sydney New South Wales

Well said. I agree with what you are saying. It’s great to get male compliments.

 Brianna-Leah, Crossdresser 67  Winnipeg Manitoba

I agree with you Sweetie. When I put on a sexy mini and all the trimmings it is nice to be admired from afar (not sure yet about close up, lol).

 kevin1960, Male CD Admirer 65  Fareham Hampshire

My experience is getting more than just negative or disinterested posts, more like rude and offensive. I know that these posts are usually the result of a bad experience with a male, but the attitude from many seems to be "all males are the same". This will put off the genuine males from making contact, because they respect those do do not wish any contact from us. However, the trolls and perverts, who are the original cause of the hatred towards males, will continue, because they have no respect for you in the first place. Eventually all males you meet will be the same, because the good ones have already been scared away.

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