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Where does one fit?I recently had text conversations with several cross dressers that got my attention. So my curious mind began to question one’s motivation for cross dressing. I know there are many, many different feelings regarding the subject. So I questioned my motivation regarding what several…
Hi, how are all my beautiful friends today. I love you all and pray your day is as beautiful as mine. We sometimes forget how blessed we are to experience, not one, but two wonderful persons within us. Sometimes we feel feminine and very girly. Sometimes we feel Masculine and manly. Many of us have girlfriends and wives, and some like me, don't. 
Indeed, we are blessed to able to give and receive such wonderful pleasures of intimacy xxx
Early in my twenties, I stopped into a book store and noticed a magazine titled Female Mimics. I immediately thumbed through the papers and it had a profound affect on me. The papers were filled with crossdressers (not nude) but poses of men in panties, bras, nylons and dresses. Looking beauti…
Sorry for your loss Jamieb,..I'm sure that your late Wife would have wanted to know that you resumed your comfort on crossdressing assuming that she secretly knew of your hobby,...life goes on and it's your life now .xxxxx
Jaime that was a very heartfelt blog. I understand exactly what you are saying as I too go through the tug of war in my heart and my mind. Glad you will stay on the site and please keep us updated on how everything turns out for you.
very lovely story and continue your journey
much love to you on your journey forward may it bring you all you need xxx
Pixie, you have experienced the outside feeling of cross dressing and it must truly be a beautiful feeling inside. Most us fear the thought of going forward for many different reasons. But we fantasy about going out in pubic and the pure thrill of satisfaction being feminine in a public forum. Kudos to you, I'm sure your future of being feminine for the public to appreciate you will be rewarding. Jaimeb
Since joining this venue, I've become more inquisitive about why I found cross dressing so inviting and emotionally appealing. I am a man after all. But my interest since very early in life was stimulating and inspiring my desires, to feel like a woman. As my temptations grew in strength, my resista…
This is a very good blog and it does make you think why we do what we do…I totally agree with you that the CD community is so diverse in terms of the reasons why we dress and to me that’s a good thing as it would be boring if we were all the same 
….for me dressing is pure escapism..being someone else for a while..it’s the best stress reliever I’ve ever experienced dressing up…I’m totally happy living as a man but I do love transforming into a glamorous woman when the urge takes me..in answer to your question I want to feel and look like a woman when I dress otherwise I wouldn’t do it haha..when I look in the mirror i see Vicky I don’t see my male self xxxxx
Our journey has been one of many questions and few answers. Normally we start experiencing early in life with little understanding as to what's happening. I guess we feel it's just playing and nothing more. But we're ashamed enough to keep it to ourselves. However, as we get older and continue to en…
Nice blog Jaimeb xx…it took me 30yrs to realise what I was doing wasn’t perverse or distasteful and I even questioned my sexuality….finally I came out to my family and the first thing they said to me was that I was doing absolutely nothing wrong because I wasn’t hurting anyone and that I shouldn’t be ashamed of who I am…since then I’ve opened up about my alter ego to a few non family members and got the exact same response..nothing but support and understanding and for that I’m so grateful. Xxxx
Very true
Nice blog Jaimeb. An important point is not to feel guilty and embrace your femininity, like/love the person that you are. In the end it is ok not to go out in public if you just enjoy dressing at home. There is no real end goal here. We are not further in the process because we don't go out or -even with all that femininity- just decide to stay a man, not transition, and enjoy being a man at times just as much as being a woman. How far you want to go, is a personal choice. Just enjoy the "rich" person that you are. x Maila
Amen sister! 
Where is my road leading? As a young boy age of 9, I started cross dressing, of course sneaking and trying on my sister's dresses, then her panties and finally everything. I felt very comfortable and girly. I would play with the girls, paper dolls, jump rope, the works. At 15 I was molested by senio…
Follow your Heart*****this is not a rehearsal....best wishes whatever you decide xxx
not to copy another post but sounded like my story and knowing there are others like me
I had to read this story twice to see if I wrote it. We have a lot of similarities in out past. My wiffe passed away from cancer last July. I have had a series of tragedies through out my adult life. The crossdressing for me too has been something I would dabble in and leave alone for a few years and then back into it for a while usually sneaking around or when working out of town. Once my wife died I pretty much ventured back into it gradually. Once on this site I found great support from a member that was very helpful and supportive. I will be forever grateful. Since then this site has provide me with many new relationships and a couple of really good friends. Who knows what the future will be possibly a romantic relatonship. Anything is possible. But what a great blog and thank you for such honesty and self perspective. Yes I found this very helpful and encouraging to me. 
Very nice. I have many of the same feelings and issues. Nice to know others feel as I do ❤️
"Aging is an extraordinary process in which you become the person you were always meant to be." Your interesting, loving life from the past is very valuable, but it is in the past. You have grown and are now becoming the person you always felt inside. The circumstances in your current lifetime give you the chance to become that person at the fullest. Embrace your femininity. How much you show that you are a crossdresser or transgender to the outside world is a choice only you can make. This community certainly helps you to let the fog lift and not feel guilty about anything. I wish you a beautiful future!
x Moilo
Beautifully written and very meaningful xx
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As a long time CD who is transitioning, I fully understand how you feel, as a lot of us have been there. Just enjoy being dressed whether fully or partly, but you can be sure it will take over more and more of your life, so please prepare for that. I am here for you if you need any help or support, which is what our community is all about. Take your time and see how you feel and take heed of the urges to dress and follow your feelings. I understand your feelings for a man whilst dressed, and would suggest meeting with a long time CD before you try to meet a man, that way you will hopefully have lost the nervousness of a first meet. I wish you well on your journey. xx